A month or so ago I went to a dinner with a group of 10 women. All between 29-33. All beautiful. All college educated. All successful with REAL careers. All in shape, well-dressed, intelligent, loving, kind, strong, funny, radiant. ALL SINGLE. All fucking single. All 10 of us. Someone please explain to me how this is possible? Each of us…
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10 Signs That the Guy You’re Dating ISN’T Your Boyfriend
Note: This post was from my old blog. Ideas and beliefs were those of a much younger soul and may no longer be representative of who I am. Okay, I’m confused. If I’m dating him, doesn’t that make him my boyfriend? Isn’t dating the definition of a relationship? Well sadly, the answer is no. In today’s Instagramming, Texting, Tindering, and…
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Just me, myself, and IHOP.
Note: This post was from my old blog. Ideas and beliefs were those of a much younger soul and may no longer be representative of who I am. I can confidently say that my favorite person today was Raul, my waiter at IHOP, whom I had the pleasure of doing business with from 8:10pm – 9:30pm on Sepulveda & National….
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Communication: the key to my heart.
Note: This post was from my old blog. Ideas and beliefs were those of a much younger soul and may no longer be representative of who I am. A guy I once had a short-lived relationship with told me, “Helen, you’d fall in love with any man who tells you when he eats, sleeps, and shits.” I hate to say it, but…
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The Beauty of a Broken Heart
Note: This post was from my old blog. Ideas and beliefs were those of a much younger soul and may no longer be representative of who I am. I know all of my other posts so far have been lighthearted and fun, but tonight I feel like talking about some real shit. I think most people in my generation are…
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